Married Life
I am actually on very good terms with my students' parents, and some of them are very "fren" with me..everytime i meet them, they like to ask how my marriage life is. I always answer, "ok lah"...i think i didn't show too much excitement...until once, a parent actually looked worried and asked, "Are you happy?"...
Indeed, i am happy. I mean, everything is fine.
I like the idea that we'll go home together, and eat together etc. But i think the main reason why I don't show too much excitement is because...basically, there's not much difference now as compared to last time ! For the simple reason that my mom is staying with us ! It makes a whole lot of difference. I don't even have to do marketing, as she'll cook my fav dishes everyday, and all i have to do is to sit and eat ! I mean, everything is taken care of...just like old times...the only big difference is there's a man staying with us now. It used to be just me, my mom and auntie. Now, we're a happy family of 4, and occasionally, my uncle will eat dinner with us. So, everything is the same...
I'm in fact very grateful...i think not many women have the chance to stay with their moms after marriage, and I'm one rare lucky person. And for this, i'm indeed thankful for Kit Kit..for being so understanding towards my needs. Although he likes to joke that it's better that my mom stays with us cuz I cook horribly, i know deep inside, he's very sensitive to my needs.
Of cuz, this is not an excuse not to learn cooking.....but i must admit, i don't exactly like the kitchen...ironically, the kitchen is one of my fav places in my home, but not my fav also as i just don't like cooking....i think, i simply don't have the potential for it.
Indeed, i am happy. I mean, everything is fine.
I like the idea that we'll go home together, and eat together etc. But i think the main reason why I don't show too much excitement is because...basically, there's not much difference now as compared to last time ! For the simple reason that my mom is staying with us ! It makes a whole lot of difference. I don't even have to do marketing, as she'll cook my fav dishes everyday, and all i have to do is to sit and eat ! I mean, everything is taken care of...just like old times...the only big difference is there's a man staying with us now. It used to be just me, my mom and auntie. Now, we're a happy family of 4, and occasionally, my uncle will eat dinner with us. So, everything is the same...
I'm in fact very grateful...i think not many women have the chance to stay with their moms after marriage, and I'm one rare lucky person. And for this, i'm indeed thankful for Kit Kit..for being so understanding towards my needs. Although he likes to joke that it's better that my mom stays with us cuz I cook horribly, i know deep inside, he's very sensitive to my needs.
Of cuz, this is not an excuse not to learn cooking.....but i must admit, i don't exactly like the kitchen...ironically, the kitchen is one of my fav places in my home, but not my fav also as i just don't like cooking....i think, i simply don't have the potential for it.
7 Comments:
At 9:30 PM, Little Miss Snooze said…
not like now..i got to eat maggi mee as late dinner..heh. :)
At 6:56 AM, 欣颖 said…
i know...dinner is always ready by 6.30pm, and it;s really a blessing
At 9:46 AM, Little Miss Snooze said…
Definitely!
At 10:54 PM, Jemej said…
your husband's very sweet and understanding. =)
At 5:28 PM, youpos said…
yo! just discovered your blog!! will be linking you up to mine! -Jadely
At 8:34 PM, 欣颖 said…
Hi Jadely,
Yessss...i have this blog for quite some time...muz add me !
At 11:30 PM, Jemej said…
Hiya, can I add you to my list of contacts as well?
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